Supergirl, upon waking from an enviable nap, attempts to dress herself in a teeny tiny sundress period. In another glimpse at freak california coastal mountain winter, it snowed today, so I suggested that she find something to wear under or over the lovely garment.
This was her response:
Surlygirl: (shouting)This is a problem!! I don't want to wear something warmer with this and I don't want to change!! I want to wear this dress and I am not comfortable!!!!
Gwendomama: I wish I was a faerie to take away all your problems and make it all work out perfectly.
SG: I am glad you are not a a faerie because I HATE faeries and I don't even BELIEVE in them for REAL!!
GM: Wow, I hope the faeries didn't hear you say that.
SG: WHAT?!?! WHAT DID YOU SAY!?!
GM: I said I hope the faeries didn't hear you say that you hate them. Not cool.
SG: I HATE YOU!!!! (no, she has never said this before)
GM: (calmly, I swear) If you are going to say that could you say it a little more quietly? Your brother is trying to nap.
SG: (hiss) I HATE YOU!!!!
GM: That's a little better. But really you should say 'I don't care for something' instead of 'I hate'. And, just so you know, if you said that to anyone else it would earn you a time out. But since it was me and I know you are being ridiculous, you're off the hook.
SG: I HATE RIDICULOUS!!!!
GM: I don't care for ridiculous.
What would YOU have done?!
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Well my Supergirl is 15 years old now, and has been replaced with an alien. I used to know this person. Clearly, her body has been invaded by a snatcher.
In any event, she used to tell me she hated me all the time. In trying to remember why or how it ended, I know there were a couple of things I did.
One was, whenever she said it, I'd say something like, "No, you don't hate me, you hate what I did or said. It's ok to hate behavior, but it hurts my feelings to hear you hate me."
I'm also not above crying in front of them when they've hurt my feelings. I think it's important for them to know you're a human being and that their actions and comments have consequences.
You of course know she doesn't mean it, but it still hurts to hear it. Just wait...it only gets "better" from here :)
You did better than I would have!! I think you are absolutely on the right track.
Gmama, you handled that with the grace and dignity that I hope to someday develop!!
when my almost 3yr old girl told me for the first time... I laughed at her and told her that if that's the case she wouldn't mind if I didn't throw her a birthday party.... she quickly changed her mind! But yes it is the hardest thing to hear for the first time.
Me? I woulda sold her to the gypsies. Rest assured, that is why I don't have children...
I can't stop laughing! I can just see her in the "too small outfit" going on and on...I think she was still in "la la land" from the nap! She probably doesn't remember any of it! You handled it well...as always mama!
The first time Jarod said that (and he's only done that twice), I just smiled and said, "no matter what you feel, I will aways love you." About five minutes later he was in tears and hugging me.
*sigh* it was still shocking to hear. Hey, can you send me an email, I have some questions about health care coverage for pregnancy for single moms. you can find me at egret @ lothlorien . com - Rachel Rischpater
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