Sunday, November 23, 2008

SITUATION Follow-Up:1

I got home from a long day spent having The Big Fun here, (as immediately documented by QuicksilverCindy; stay tuned for the complaint and follow-up details!))where we were joined by the female members of the Fig Family, to a message that 'Marla' had been 'dealt with'.

The BOS did her thing and called Marla, on my behalf, telling her to essentially back the fuck off, she wouldn't want her reputation on this small mountain to reflect only the the small-minded and transparent lies she was offering, and she was sure she would not want people to think that she could continue to spread untrue and unkind lies about someone, let alone add to their pain.

Marla replied with a series of 'uh-huh's' and 'okay's', and the BOS reminded her that what she was spreading was indeed 'actionable' and would be addressed as such.

The Bos, against her inherent judgment, believes that 'Marla' will not be mentioning this story.
Ever again.

15 comments:

mamadaisy said...

clearly, the BOS did not get her name by accident. yay for kick ass friends!

Anonymous said...

Why the hell didn't you do it yourself? You should have told Mona yourself that one more word out of her mouth and you would put your fist down her throat and sued her. Can't understand why you need someone else sticking up for you like it's second grade.

gwendomama said...

Anon - why don't YOU shut the fuck up? Afraid to tell me who you are or I might stick my fist down YOUR throat?
I WILL sue her ass, and I TOTALLY WOULD MESS HER UP and I don't need an assault charge.

I have friends who are supportive and know when to help. I don't think that life and death matters can be compared to 2nd grade.

RoseRedHoofbeats said...

I've said it before and I'll say it again... I've never known ANYONE'S blog to have such lowlife little cretins on it like yours. That really sucks, because I've loved reading your blog. It's been almost a year since I googled "irritable uterus" from my hospital bed and found your journal.

Is there any way to track IPs on blogspot?

gwendomama said...

RR- I am not sure just how to take that one....I want to be flattered, but not sure I can stretch it that far........

RoseRedHoofbeats said...

You wrote it in an entry about when you had Bubbles, I think, and it came up as a "statistically improbable phrase". =P

Boss of Seattle said...

silly anon,
adults actually know when they are walking on thin ice and are (hopefully) responsible enough to ask for assistance when needed. That is what G did when she asked me to call Marla. acted responsibly. And since I too am a responsible adult, I was kind and clear when I spoke with her and made one simple request: stop the plunder of G heart and let her live with the happy memories of dear Elijah, and cut out the stupid shit talking. Easy. No violence, no raised voices, no lame accusations. Just fact. So next time you have a conflict with another, you may want to consider having a friend step in for you rather than spend a shit load of money on attorney fees and make yourself look like a 2nd grade bully. Because really, what normal adult actually *wants* to shove their fist down someone elses throat? That kind of behavior is for children - crazy, psychopathic children.

Cindy said...

BOS: You rock.

Anon: Sometimes it's really nice to have a third party step in to lend a hand in a situation that is emotionally hard to deal with oneself. Maybe you don't have any friends who would do this for you? Too bad. But maybe you can find one to help you figure out how to sign your name. Unless, of course, you don't want to.

Anonymous said...

I had a problem with someone in the corpo-rat world and, sure, I would have loved to have told him "one more word out of your mouth and I'll put my fist down your throat and sue you" but instead I went to my Boss and let him handle the schmuck. I am so 2nd grade. Plus, I still have a job.

Even ugly situations do not have to be treated with ugliness.

Geener

Anonymous said...

Way to go bos you amre my new hero. Just recently I have had two of my friends step in and tell the ex off on my behalf. Why you ask? Not because i couldn't do it but because they kick ass and love me. Plain and simple. They have just had enough of his bullshit. They were
of his antics and couldn't stand keeping their mouths shut. For this I will be eternally greatful. I am so thankful to have kick ass friends like mine.
So BOS thank you for sticking up
for my girl G.
Denise

Anonymous said...

I'm not sure I understand what is going on. I read the post about the woman who talked badly about you, but I'm confused with everyone's hatred, angry words and violent reactions. I would simply leave it alone. You know that what she says is wrong and by the looks of it many of your friends do too. She will get her dose of what she did to you, but just let life handle this one. Don't go to war, just let it be. I'm a little saddened by everyone anger with this though. Very bothered by it. Like a lynching mob (sorry English is not my first language, may have messed that expression up). Your friend Marla sounds very angry at life. She is miserable and suffering, have compassion for her. Good luck.

Vee said...

Yea, yea Gwendo! I love it. Nice to those who are nice to you, and kick ass to those who aren't! Me too.

I love it when people get owned. Wooooo!

And besides, wasn't Marla spouting crap TO that friend? Therefore, it's totally justifed for that friend to tell Marla to eff off. And who cares? Someone told her to eff off, yay!

Vee said...

*I love it when people are owned.. who deserve to be!

RoseRedHoofbeats said...

Last anon- Marla accused Gwendo of STARVING HER BABY TO DEATH. And then TOLD OTHER PEOPLE THAT, to the point that those other people almost called CPS on her. The baby that Gwendo desperately tried to get to grow and to gain weight and to save. It gets everyone's "mama wolf" instincts up.

Anonymous said...

Everyone knows what this woman is like, so there is no need to act.